CHILDREN NEED BOUNDARIES

It’s not easy to be the parent. It seems less and less popular to tell kids no.


I needed to know what Proverbs 22:6 teaches,

“Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.”
As parents, we need to set Biblical Boundaries.

*Teach them what the 10 Commandments mean and how they relate to boundaries.  If we follow the Commandments by staying within it’s boundaries–our lives will go well.  Going Outside the Commandments we will have major problems.

*Teach our kids the difference between realistic and unrealistic expectations. Not cater to their every whim.

*Draw lines between what’s appropriate and inappropriate for language, entertainment,  internet, cell phones, games and the length of a hemline.

**Model manners. And what it looks like to seek a life of godliness, not just religious activity.

*Teach them the  importance of Purity–Holiness (See 1 Thess. 4)

*Teach them the Character of Jesus (Matthew 5:1-12)

Glory knows I’ve been so imperfect with all this.
But holding the line on being the parent, even when done imperfectly, is good. And will be worth it.
Even in those seasons where you feel as if they’re doing everything the opposite of what you’ve taught them. All that parenting is in them. And the fruit of that will emerge one day.
Yes, be the parent. Teach biblical truths. Stand strong in saying no even when it’s not the popular choice.

*Recognize that a desire to please often prevents us from saying no.

*Remember, there are only 2 clear responses.  Yes.  NoAny other answer is an excuse to avoid commitment, or a wall to hide behind.

*You have a right to say no!  Sometimes no is necessary to maintain respect.

*Keep your answer short.  There is no need to justify your answer.  Lengthy responses may result in your putting the same answer of for a future date and can even compromise your credibility.
That’s what our kids need so desperately.
And be encouraged, friend … you’re doing better than you think you are.

The Key  is to TEACH our children the how and why to have a personal relationship with Jesus.  Teach them the Eternal Perspective vs the temporal one here on this earth.  Eternity is a long long time and my prayer is that each family member will know that they are going to Heaven.  That is my life’s desire-People KNOWING JESUS AS LORD AND SAVIOR!

Dear Lord, You know better than all of us that parenting is hard. Help me to see each day as a teaching opportunity to raise up a child and/or grandchild who loves You and sees that they need a Persoanl Relationship with You.  In Jesus’ Name, amen.